Vector marriage of a snake. Vector relationships by zodiac signs

A happy vector marriage is possible with the right combination of astrological signs. You can determine the compatibility of partners in a servant-master relationship using G. Kvasha’s table and online.

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What is a vector marriage

Relationships between people have always been the subject of research, and the concept of “love” still cannot be given a logical explanation. What to do if you can’t find your soulmate using logic or common sense? What to do in a situation where established habits do not help you find a companion? In this case, it is recommended to pay attention to astrology, or more precisely, to such a definition in astrology as vector marriage. Perhaps the stars will help you find your happiness.

A vector marriage is an alliance concluded between the participants of a vector ring. There are thirteen such participants in total. Each of them represents the image of an animal in the year in which the person was born. Less often, a vector marriage is built according to the signs of the zodiac (Kvasha table), but this method is considered less reliable. It is generally accepted that identifying partners by year gives an idea of ​​who in a couple will be the “master” and who will be the “servant,” which is much more difficult to determine from a horoscope. In both cases, it is difficult to say exactly what vector marriage awaits both spouses; there are no categorical definitions, and the experience of famous creative and political personalities has shown different scenarios for the development of events.

For this and many other reasons, it is worth knowing what it means to enter into a vector marriage, and what sign (animal or zodiac) person can become your life partner according to the destiny of the universe. A special table is used to determine compatibility between future partners, and examples of successful compatibility can be seen even on the pages of history. You can also conduct a test to determine the strengths and weaknesses of a future marriage, where both partners will be characterized.

If studying all the disadvantages and advantages of entering into a vector marriage still leaves you with questions, then you should pay attention to the reviews of knowledgeable people.

Master and servant in vector marriage

As already mentioned, in a vector marriage both partners occupy the positions of master and servant. Simply put, one of them becomes dominant, and the second will completely depend on him. This approach may seem like an example of a relic of past years, when men infringed on the rights of women, but the vector ring in no way determines the gender of the owner, only his year of birth and the corresponding animal sign.

The vector ring consists of a sequence of animal signs. Each of the signs has two neighbors, which determines their positions in relation to each other. The sign on the left side is recognized as the master, and on the right side as the servant. It is difficult to determine logically how a particular vector ended up in a certain place in the sequence; for this you need to have unique mathematical abilities and more. The same applies to the question of why a vector needs proximity to specific signs. We recommend that you pay more attention to the cases in which you will become like a servant (vector), because in such situations your position in a couple will be extremely unstable, and the dynamics of the relationship will be determined by the latter.

How to create a happy vector marriage

A union created by heaven has its pros and cons. There are much more of the former, since the nature of the relationship is expected, and the partners clearly understand their position in life in relation to each other. You can often see successful variants of vector combinations among friends and even examples of happy relationships between famous people. In the case of using a vector ring as the basis for the formation of interpersonal relationships, one should understand:

• vector marriage is primarily a spiritual marriage. It was not by chance that astrologers created a certain sequence of signs, since the energy fields of each of them interact with the others. In each individual case they can create both harmony and become a threat;
• marriage of convenience or spiritual marriage, which is stronger? Here, a marriage of convenience should be understood not as an attraction to material values, but as the creation of a “list” of qualities that a potential partner should have. The stars have determined in advance that each of the spouses will take their own position: the owner will have access to such opportunities as betrayal in the psychological and physical sense;
• vector marriage can bring both boundless happiness and real horror. Determining the positions of partners immediately simplifies the relationship, since everyone already knows their rights and responsibilities in a couple. There are times when the weaker party (servants) does not agree with this state of affairs. In such situations, a real tragedy and even some kind of catastrophe can unfold, since no one in the couple intends to give in. If your current relationship turns out to be exactly like this, then you should immediately make your choice.

All of the above should convince potential partners of a vector union to take the issue of relationships more seriously, since the union of inappropriate energy fields can be extremely destructive. Even experienced astrologers don’t know how to break such ties, so you should choose a life partner with all responsibility and attention to star clues.

How to get out of a vector marriage

If there is a need to end the relationship between the spouses of a vector marriage, but you want to understand how to maintain a connection with each other, the answer is simple - not at all. Only after a complete rupture of the energy fields does the new life of the partners really begin. In this case, the servant will have an extremely difficult time; he will not know how to live without the orders of his usual master or how to survive in modern realities without his protection.

As for the owner, his health may also deteriorate. Temperament may become unbalanced and physical health may deteriorate. Over time, normal life will return; this can be facilitated by meeting a person with whom he will have a 6-year difference in age. The imminent appearance of a new servant may worsen the scenario of rapid restoration of strength, since the new unification of energy fields will require significant psychological effort from both.

Vector marriage according to G. Kvash

The fastest and most effective way to determine your partners for a vector marriage is to use a table from Grigory Kvash. In it, he identified the possibility of interaction between astrological signs according to purpose. The table determines compatibility by zodiac signs, and not by animal elements. This approach can be used to make an additional calculation on the compatibility of partners, taking into account a more accurate date of their birth.

Vector marriage calculation online

Vector marriage compatibility can be quickly calculated online. To do this, just enter the dates of birth of your partners in the special fields. The result will be determined according to the above methods and the latest research in the field of astrology.

It is important to understand that the result obtained is only the basis of the relationship. How the couple will develop them in the future according to their star status depends only on her.

What compatibility do the stars promise when concluding a vector marriage?

Let's talk about specific signs of the vector ring.

The dragon cat simply represents a mystical union of souls. Such a couple is ideal for each other, since both partners are promising and respectable people. In a dragon-boar pair, everything will be different, since the second will not recognize the authority of the first. For this reason, frequent quarrels and misunderstandings may occur.

The snake-monkey is not distinguished by the desire to communicate with the outside world. The signs are truly closed and peculiar, so in quarrels it will be extremely difficult for them to come to an agreement.

In the tiger-goat relationship, everything will be stable, since both signs are quite closed from the outside world and do not want to communicate with other people. If the husband is a tiger in marriage, then the couple will have a calm and stable life; if the wife is a tiger, then the union promises to be quite enterprising.

The rooster-cat union is very similar to the rat-horse union. Everything in their family life will be excellent, since all signs are powerful and strong-willed. The only downsides of the rooster and the cat are that I have a pronounced tendency to go to extremes and fulfill the senseless whims of my partner, and the horse man and the rat woman have a dramatic temperament in both.

Each of the signs has its own characteristics that should be understood and taken for granted. If you strictly follow this rule, then a vector marriage can become happy, strong and long-lasting.

Grigory Kvasha

“Science and Religion” No. 3, 2000.

Vector marriages.

If anyone doesn’t know or has forgotten, I highly advise you to know and remember: there is such a phenomenon in the structural horoscope - a vector ring in which pairs of signs swirl - one of them is the master, the other is the servant. Here it is: Horse => Boar => Dragon => Cat => Rooster => Dog => Bull => Tiger => Goat => Snake => Monkey => Rat => Horse... To the left of each sign is the owner, on the right is the servant.

Usually, people’s relationships have a pendulum nature: having reached the limit, hitting a dead end, they will definitely swing in the other direction. Therefore, in ordinary couples, first one partner and then the other can take turns gaining the upper hand. It’s not at all the same in a vector pair: there are no oscillations here, the energy goes only in one direction - from the servant to the master, who always reigns supreme.

This scary ring is a vector one. Between the master and the servant, unpredictable and indescribable relationships arise (being aware of this, I have nevertheless been describing this structure of the horoscope for many years now), beneficial and destructive at the same time. In all vector interactions, a powerful reaction occurs, all processes go faster and more intense, energy is released that heats up everything around, and a vortex arises that twists, bends space, and can drive you crazy. There is no logic in vector relationships, the mind has no power over them, they develop against the will of a person, unconsciously.

Now imagine that a vector couple (master sign and servant sign) enter into a marital union or enter into a love relationship. When meeting with such a couple, discerning people sense that the love here is not really love and that the matter is generally unclean... The writer Nina Berberova (Bull) talks about her relationship with her husband, Vladislav Khodasevich (Dog): “The ordinary standards of a “husband” and “wives”, “brothers” and “sisters” would not apply to us. My happiness was not quite of the quality that is usually defined in words: joy, light, bliss, well-being, pleasure, peace. It consisted in something else: in the fact that I felt life more strongly next to him... burning with life in its contrasts... the “intensity” of the charge was sometimes such that any miracle seemed possible.”

The vector twists the master and servant into one cocoon, they are perceived as one whole. They actually cease to exist as independent units. It was said about Alexey Tolstoy and Natalia Krandievskaya (one of the famous vector couples, he is a Horse, she is a Rat) that they have a common blood circulation. Is it good? Indeed, in such a union, a person loses his protective shell and even loses his own personality traits encoded in his annual sign. There are no clear answers to the questions that arise about the vector ring. There is only one method of understanding this strange structure: to describe cases of vector interactions again and again. Only descriptions of combinations, the testimonies of the heroes themselves can give a sense of what it is like - a vector pair... And let us not judge the master in advance and feel sorry for the servant. Both pay and both receive rewards. Let God judge!

At one time, the romance between Georges Sand (Rat) and Alfred de Musset (Horse) shook up the whole of France - so much energy was released from their relationship! Dozens of books and articles are devoted to their love story. Famous people argued about who was to blame for the transience of their violent passion - he or she. And they themselves could not understand their feelings, because this is simply not given to the heroes of any vector pair. George Sand wrote to Musset: “Farewell, farewell, I don’t want to leave you and I don’t want to take you again. I don’t want anything, nothing... I don’t love you anymore - and I adore you forever. I don't want you anymore, but I can't do without you. It seems that only one heavenly lightning could heal me by destroying me. Goodbye, stay, leave, but don’t say that I’m not suffering. This alone can make me suffer even more, my love, my life, my heart, my brother, my blood, go away, but kill me by leaving.”

One would like to doubt the complete sincerity of what is written - she is a writer after all - suddenly all this is her fantasy, all this heavenly lightning, all this blood and love at the same time as dislike. But I, as a person who has talked many times with people who have been in a vector “remake,” testify: this is surprisingly accurate - she is a writer after all! - a description of the horror and simultaneous bliss of the situation. Musset, by the way, said a very short, quiet phrase, but in magical power it surpasses the tirade of George Sand: “There was a moment in your arms, the memory of which still bothers me, and will continue to prevent me from approaching another woman for a long time.” There is a greater mystery here than even the mystery of love...

Of course, in love, vector relationships do not reach their apotheosis in one day. It is empirically clear that the degree of impact is proportional to the time of communication. Unbeknownst to themselves, people fall into a trap, they merge, become one, leave their shells, so parting seems impossible to them. But you must admit that living without a sign, without your own “I”, which is rapidly melting away in a vector marriage, is not an easy task, and for a long time almost impossible.

I responsibly say that vector ring relationships are not recommended for family life. Such a family lives on a powder keg. An explosion will definitely happen. When - no one knows. The breakup between Musset and George Sand shocked everyone also because they seemed like a painfully ideal couple. The vector ring always creates these. They are perceived as a single being.

The couple Sergei Yesenin (Goat) and Isadora Duncan (Tiger) looked the same. “They are smeared with the same world, similar to each other, tailored to the same image, both are talented beyond measure, both are emotional, unrestrained, reckless...” one of their friends wrote about them.

Volumes have been written about their relationship, everyone sees something different, but everyone recognizes the anomaly here, explaining what happened to them by the uniqueness of the spouses themselves. This reason cannot be denied either. In the whirlwind of vector adventures, there is neither cause nor effect: either they behave this way because they are in a vector marriage, or they ended up in a vector marriage because they wanted to behave this way. Yesenin threatening to jump out of the window; Duncan, in her dance, falling to her knees in front of Yesenin; scandals, jealousy, mutual reproaches, sudden separations and stormy meetings, and again scandals, scandals.

It seemed to many that this was already madness. How many times Yesenin beat and destroyed everything around her, but Duncan could have done the same (fortunately, the means allowed). Isadora alternately hides from Yesenin and then begins to look for him. She admits to her friend Roberts that if she does not find her husband who has disappeared again, she will die or go crazy. All these discords and reconciliations with mountains of broken porcelain and crystal and mangled expensive furniture would have been funny if not for the reality of the tragedy that everyone around them felt.

And here is the opinion of another friend who observed another pogrom perpetrated by Yesenin: “Isadora enjoyed this wild spectacle, what came over the gentle, shy Isadora?.. His attacks had the same pacifying effect on her as a crazy race in a car or a flight in an airplane.” . Soon she herself is enthusiastically throwing plates against the walls.

Vector spouses cannot find a place for themselves on this cozy ball, as if they are no longer people, as if the earth itself no longer holds them. They take turns running away from each other, crossing the ocean back and forth. In M. Desty's memoirs, Yesenin and Duncan appear as two lost souls. Irina Odoev-tseva describes the atmosphere in the couple’s home more figuratively: “Is it fun? No, it's not fun here. It’s not only not fun, but somehow surprisingly uncomfortable. And although the room is warm, it seems that there is a draft coming from the windows hung with pink velvet curtains. There is something unsatisfactory in the air, and even the crystal chandelier glows somehow hysterically bright among the smoke of cigarettes.” Surprisingly, these quiet words are no less striking than the description of the famous scandals of famous spouses.

This romance, this marriage, lasted less than two years. However, during this time there were several novels, plays, and countless memoirs and memoirs. They separated in 1923. Yesenin’s death occurred in 1925 (December 28), and Duncan died on August 17, 1927. The circumstances of the two deaths are surprisingly intertwined. Yesenin committed suicide in the very hotel room where he and Isadora were staying; she was strangled by a scarf, the same scarf that symbolized Yesenin himself in her dances. Mysticism, mysticism in everything... Vector...

And here is another famous vector couple: Anna Akhmatova (Bull) and Nikolai Gumilyov (Dog). This union, as depicted by its participants and witnesses, looks like a fierce duel of freedom-loving passionate natures. Even before marriage she writes:

What can marriage add to the relationship of two fires merging into one fire? They had everything that a vector pair should have, otherwise Akhmatova would not have admitted:

Anyone who has been in a vector union knows how the soul is drunk through a straw, all without a trace.

Passion completely captured Anna. Nikolai Gumilyov wrote that “she still wanted to wage a “love war” - to torment and torment, to arrange scenes of jealousy with stormy explanations and stormy reconciliations...”.

Fatal, vector love ruined this union...

The ring does not spare royalty either. And although Emperor Alexander II (Tiger) was not in a vector marriage, the vector played a fatal role in his fate. He met with Ekaterina Mikhailovna Dolgorukova (Koza). She is young and beautiful, she is not yet 18 years old. He is in the prime of his life, he is 47, he is kind, courteous, after all, he is an emperor... So far there is nothing particularly vectorial. However, simple love did not end here.

“A late passion completely captured Alexander II; she became the main impulse of his life. She suppressed the responsibilities of a husband and father; she exerted influence on major political issues; she subjugated his conscience and all of him until his death” (from the memoirs of M. Paleologue). Here the vector, as they say, takes on flesh and blood, it is already pushing out other topics from the life of the emperor, just as a cuckoo pushes other chicks out of the nest. Marriage is essentially designed to save strength, love is designed to inspire and inspire... But this is not the case with the vector, it does not give strength, but takes it away, completely disconnecting a person from external life.

Here is the emperor’s confession: “Since I fell in love with you, other women have ceased to exist for me... For a whole year, when you pushed me away, and also during the time that you spent in Italy, I did not want and did not approach any woman.”

“Frequent meetings of lovers filled them with rare happiness. Alexander Nikolaevich managed to create a delightful lover out of an inexperienced girl. She belonged to him entirely. She gave him her soul, mind, imagination, will, feelings...” (M. Paleologue). And again, once again I want to stop the author of the lines. Completeness! I gave my soul, my will... All these are big words! Who verified the fact of soul transfer? What instruments were used to record this transmission? Where are the witnesses? It turns out that there is a witness - a structural horoscope. He testifies: yes, in a vector marriage the soul is given, just as everything is given, without a trace.

The most common vector scenario is when happiness and unhappiness, pleasure and torment, delight and despair go hand in hand and reach their climax. It happens that the exacerbation occurs so rapidly that a breakup is inevitable, but the scars of the former merger remain for life.

Here is the story of a vector pair of ice dancers, favorite figure skaters. Maya Usova (Dragon), Alexander Zhulin (Cat). A third element was added to the pair - Oksana Grischuk (Boar), resulting in the formation of a completely wild vector triangle, which cost a lot of strength and health to all its sides.

How many times have they lived through love and betrayal, meeting and separation in dance, and how many times in life? It is known that Maya went through fifteen depressions, two of which were severe.

This “ice” story ended, if not idyllic, then quite encouragingly. A castling took place, an exchange of partners, or partners, as you wish, resulting in the formation of the pair Platov-Usova (Goat-Dragon) and Zhulin-Grischuk (Cat-Boar). U. Maya Usova and Alexander Zhulin began a fundamentally new life, since their vector alliance fell apart, their vector nightmare ended. I think that in the end it was Zhulin who was most fortunate, who was a servant in alliance with Usova, and is now free. But, as we see from Usova’s example, the vector ring, not sparing the servants, cripples the owners even more, breaking their psyche. For the structural horoscope and its creator (me, therefore), the most important thing so far is the usual demonstration of the anomaly of a vector marriage.

Finally, the example is not tragic, although, how can I say... Maria Mironova (Dog) and Alexander Menaker (Bull). From the memoirs of Maria Vladimirovna: “Alexander Semenovich Menaker, when we met, was already a famous artist, and I was a nobody. And if it weren't for him. maybe they would never have recognized me. After all, he buried himself for my sake, deliberately faded into the background on the stage (emphasis mine. - Author). Everyone thought that I was first and in charge, but everything rested on him - the repertoire, the direction, and the complexities of our existence. He always took the fire upon himself, and there was a lot of fire.” We have before us a rare case when the owner objectively evaluates the vector sacrifice of the servant. It remains to be noted that Mironova lived 86 years, and Menaker 69 years, although the age difference between them is only three years.

How, after all, should people behave who happen to find themselves in a vector marriage, about which so many frightening things are told here, right up to the loss of their “protective shell”? Run? But there is love, a joint household, and often children. What to do to save the family? First of all, don't panic. Take a closer look at your life, compare it with other cases of vector marriages, try to assess the power of this phenomenon over you. Understand yourself: do you like what is happening to you or not? Remember that it is always easier to go with the wind than against the wind, especially if it is not a wind, but a hurricane. It is important to know that the master is always right, right in his own eyes, in the eyes of others, and even in the eyes of the servant, so the servant should abandon all thoughts of justice. There is no need to download rights, try to change fate and win dominance. It’s better to freeze - a step to the left, a step to the right... - and you fly into the abyss. There will be a desire and opportunity to see each other less often, do not resist this, get a break. If the relationship becomes tense and unbearable, do not hope that it will pass and that it will improve: the vector ring does not spin back.

The master in a marriage must feel sorry for the servant, understanding that he is not to blame for his mistakes, the reason for everything is the vector law. After parting with the owner (if you succeeded, which is desirable in most cases), never try to take revenge on him, much less return.

The option of a “temporary” divorce is often encountered: some relief before a new reunion. This option is no good at all - if you’ve already managed to escape, then you have to scurry away without looking back, there may not be a second chance. If you are unable to leave a vector marriage, then take comfort in the fact that life is your temporary state; the fact that other marriages are not much better; the fact that other marriages compared to vector ones are sheer boredom.

Finally, advice for vector lovers: do not rush to formalize your vector marriage, do not rush to give birth to vector children. Whether Pushkin or Blok will be born to you (and these poets were born into vector families) is not yet known, but the risk of turning your life, the life of your loved ones, the lives of your children into a living hell is too great. Take your time, take yours, swim in the stormy sea of ​​feelings, suffer, be delighted, rise and fall, but do not drag this pandemonium into the sacred institution of marriage. Marriage needs balance; it is designed to save energy, and not waste it endlessly. In the end, out of 144 possible marriages, only 24 are vector, and there are much more normal (equilibrium) marriages - 120.

So, there are almost no recommendations. Unless there are possible types of compensation that a servant can pay to the owner. You can give the owner your youth, you can give your authority and skill, or you can simply buy him off with money. Try to neglect a servant if he is a millionaire or a general secretary, a people's artist or a Nobel laureate!

However, it is worth remembering that everything is ground in a vector meat grinder; neither Nikita Khrushchev, nor Ted Turner, nor James Joyce, nor Ilya Glazunov are immune from humiliation (all of the listed persons have been in vector marriages). Try to see yourself from the outside, and if not be horrified, then at least be surprised. Remember that the strength of the vector impact is directly proportional to the time of contact, therefore, by increasing the frequency of separation, you will weaken the hurricane. If you want to avoid too violent excesses, try to live up to your role, one should be a kind and caring master, the other an executive and devoted servant. However, these tips are similar to recommendations for preventing a volcanic eruption. Sometimes a good surgical quarrel is more useful than half-hearted appeasement therapy. In a word, if you don’t want the “last days of Pompeii”, stay away from volcanoes.

A servant who intends to run away from his master should look as insignificant as possible in his master's eyes. This is not so difficult, because every day the servant's personality melts away. With his insignificance and pitiful behavior, the servant lulls one's vigilance, and when the owner becomes completely insolent, one must suddenly give in. After escaping from the owner, do not communicate with him under any circumstances for some time. When health is restored (we are talking about all types of health: physical, moral and mental), then you can meet him, but maintaining a distance, because the owner, once he has sucked the blood out of you, will always want to fall to the source again, especially if the source has recovered so well.

Advice for those who are completely happy in a vector marriage and consider everything said to be the author’s invention (usually the owner of the couple): live serenely and do not pay attention to anyone, because you have already gone into your own world, and we remain in this, and understand each other We won't be able to have a friend anymore. I urge the rest to continue anti-vector propaganda, the results of which to date have already been enormous, and in the future they will reverse the balance between darkness and light, good and evil.

If you would like to share your own or a vector story you know, I will be glad to know it. After all, you can talk and write about these relationships endlessly, and everyone will endlessly read and listen with interest.

In astrology there is the concept of “vector marriage”. This is the name given to the union of two representatives of certain signs of the Eastern horoscope, which is characterized by unpredictability and is based on a “master-servant” relationship.

Vector ring structure:

Rat - Horse - Boar - Dragon - Cat - Rooster - Dog - Ox - Tiger - Goat - Snake - Monkey - Rat.

The neighbor on the left is the master sign, and the neighbor on the right is the servant sign. For example, in an alliance with a Boar, the Horse will be the master, and in an alliance with the Rat, it will be a servant.

The principles of the existence of the vector ring influence everyone who enters into such relationships, and disbelief in horoscopes is not a defense against them.

Let's highlight a few main points:

Vector relationships are characterized by increased emotionality and require serious energy expenditure; the interaction of partners resembles a conflict of natural elements;
. everyone is equal in front of a vector ring: neither logic, nor intuition, nor will will help to resist its principles;
. vector relationships easily destroy a person’s own protective field or find his vulnerabilities;
. The advantages of vector relationships are quickly established contact between partners, a complete feeling of comfort, the simultaneous possibility of the hottest passion, spiritual understanding, and intellectual harmony.

What should a person do if he suddenly finds out that he is a member of a vector union? Here are some tips:

Don't panic and try to figure everything out calmly;
. try to calmly assess how much your existing relationships influence you;
. remember that the “master” is always right in his own eyes, in the eyes of others, and even in the eyes of the “servant”;
. The “servant” should abandon all thoughts of justice and equality;
. there is no need to try to change fate, and if there is a desire and opportunity to see each other less often, do not resist this - this way both you and your uneasy union will get a break.

Vector marriage: pros and cons:

People open up to each other as much as possible, this leads to a merging of souls;
. in no other union is a person capable of experiencing such strong and varied feelings;
. marriage becomes a source of conflict - partners often hurt each other, in such relationships jealousy and resentment manifest themselves more strongly than in any other, each participant in such a union feels dependent on the other;
. At any moment and for any reason, a conflict can begin, the situation is very mentally exhausting, and constant stress undermines health.

From life experience we know that the most powerful emotions in married life fall precisely on those who are in a vector union. When the euphoria of the beginning of the novel ends, and the relationship takes a more stable form, its “consequences” become obvious - it turns out that someone has problems with the nervous system, someone has unbalanced basic body functions, someone has become too aggressive, and someone completely lost interest in what was happening.

This is what often happens in a vector marriage:

. the “servant” may degrade, and the “master” may lose his conscience;
. the “servant” can become hysterical, eccentric, and the “master” is forced to follow him like a nanny;
. the outcome of the development of such relations cannot be predicted, just as not a moment of calm can be guaranteed;
. participants in such a union do not notice their personal transformations, cannot be apart for a long time, and as soon as they get together, they begin to quarrel;
. spouses grow together in all areas of life, like Siamese twins, lose interest in the world around them, plunging into the abyss of their experiences.

A person who has fallen into a vector trap must decide for himself what is more important to him - the preservation of his own personality, or the pleasure that can be obtained in such a union. The immediate environment of each partner can play an important role - from the outside, as a rule, it is clearer that something wrong is going on with a person.

A very serious topic - children in a vector marriage:

. “vector” children are uncontrollable, just like vector marriages themselves;
. children copy “vector chaos” even when it exists even when everything is outwardly good in the family, and destroys the personalities of the parents;
. a child in a vector marriage requires tenfold attention, a special approach, he should not be a hostage to the situation.

Vector marriages, depriving spouses of a protective field, make them more impressionable and sharpen their perception. Such qualities contribute to success in some professions and creative activities. Children of vector marriages are also susceptible to this influence - they can be both unbalanced and brilliant.

Is it worth running away from such a union as fast as you can, or can you still try to start a family and save your nerves? Despite the passionate love, the relationship in such couples can hardly be called cloudless.

If you decide on such a relationship, then

Do not rush to formalize your marriage and give birth to “vector” children until you are sure that you are capable of such a relationship;
. the “master” must (simply must!) feel sorry for the “servant”, whose personality is gradually losing its individuality;
. The “servant” should remember the material and psychological conclusions that he draws from this marriage;
. sometimes you can resort to the option of a “temporary divorce”, which will ease the situation before a new reunion;
. the more often the separations, the weaker the hurricane raging in your family;
. The “servant,” having decided to break, must look as insignificant as possible in the eyes of the “master” - in this case, you can get out of the situation with the least losses;
. Having parted with the “master”, do not try to take revenge, much less return to him - distance yourself as far as possible, it is better not to communicate at all until the emotional wounds heal.

Not everyone knows exactly the dates of the Eastern calendar (it begins with the first new moon in the sign of Aquarius), so use our service to determine your sign.

Did you find out that you live in a vector union?

Imagine that in 10 or 20 years your life will not be stable, and your partner will still irritate you, and sometimes even offend you. If you understand that you are not ready for the fact that the relationship will periodically become unbearable, nervous tension will reach its peak, and you will feel that you are slowly fading away, then it is better to run away.

Life confirms that a servant who has escaped from the influence of his master immediately begins to achieve success in areas that were previously inaccessible to him.

If, despite the unevenness of your relationship, you are able to receive satisfaction from it, then take everything for granted, do not complain about fate and do not try to change it. Forget about fairness and stop proving anything to your partner. It must be said directly that passion and love help hide neurotic attachment, which will only bring oppressive jealousy, fear of loss, fear of being alone and self-doubt into sunny relationships.
If the spouses have a large age difference, or the marriage was concluded already in adulthood, then you can hope for luck, but even in this case, tolerant relationships must be properly built. If you want to give such a marriage a chance to exist, never oppose yourself to your partner, do not draw attention to the differences that exist between you. Stop the dialogue if there is a danger of a quarrel, take a break from each other. By demonstratively defending your position, you only aggravate the conflict.

And yet, is it possible to live in a vector relationship all your life? Yes, you can. But only if you are not ready for marriage as a fairly calm and balanced union, created for raising children, joint housekeeping, mutual support, and cannot imagine life without inspiring love and passionate marital relations with the closest person in the world.

Marriages with Romanticization of the Mind

For this type of marriage to be successful, it is necessary to have mutual understanding between the partners, their willingness to discuss all emerging issues and openly express their point of view. Marriage in this case is a joint activity in running a joint household, making money, etc. In this case, the roles are distributed in advance, which significantly reduces the likelihood of conflicts.

So, let's describe the following nine marriages:

Wife husband
Horse Cat
Horse Boar
Horse Goat
Tiger Cat
Tiger Boar
Tiger Goat
Dog Cat
Dog Boar
Dog Goat

In such unions, the man is fascinated by the energy of his girlfriend, her activity, and practicality. And he himself is, as a rule, engaged in creation, science, creative activity. The woman becomes the main support of the entire structure of this union, transfers her maternal instinct to her life partner, and takes care of him as a younger one.

Such a marriage does not shine with the facets of love, but it can be quite worthy and lasting if the partners are tolerant of each other.

Vector marriages Tiger - Goat, Horse - Boar are dangerous. For such unions there is only one way out: to establish relationships in which the strong partner is consciously responsible for the mental state of the weaker one. But a romantic feeling is akin to a fragile flower; it must be protected, protected from the rough prose of reality. Outsiders must not interfere in the relations within such a union. A person from the outside will not notice or understand the feelings that bind the spouses.

The marriage of the Tiger with the Cat is more pleasant - in it the big cat simply “adopts” the little one.

Let's look at nine more marriages in which:

Wife husband
Goat Horse
Goat Dog
Goat Tiger
Cat Horse
Cat dog
Cat Tiger
Boar Horse
Boar Dog
Boar Tiger

In such unions, the husband is undoubtedly stronger, but the relationship develops in such a way that he often has to give in. A man seeks love and finds its sexual embodiment in his partner; This is why sexual compatibility in this type of marriage is especially important. A woman likes the strength and inflexibility of her chosen one, as well as the fact that he takes into account her desires and does not remain indifferent to her requests. Marriage is quite possible if the husband does not turn into a domestic tyrant.

Vector marriages Boar - Horse, Goat - Tiger can be called difficult unions. More adequate unions are Tiger - Cat, Horse - Goat. In this case, the main thing is the commonality of psychology, views, and the coincidence of moral principles. The same social status of the spouses also plays a significant role.

Nine more marriages:

Wife husband
Dragon Snake
Dragon Bull
Dragon Rooster
Rat Ox
Rat Snake
Rat Rooster
Monkey Ox.
Monkey Snake
Monkey Rooster

A union that is difficult to imagine, but still occurs. An active man with a complex character, romanticizes female beauty. Almost a prerequisite for such a marriage is material wealth. In this case, the husband rejoices at his wife’s beauty and well-groomed appearance, her good manners, and her ability to behave in society. The lady is proud of the achievements of her chosen one and enjoys the fruits of his labors. In such a lifelong union, a man becomes a knight without fear or reproach, and a woman becomes a beautiful stranger who is loved with an unearthly love, for the sake of which all feats are performed.

The greatest trust is in the Monkey-Rooster marriage.

And the last nine:

Wife husband
Bull Dragon
Ox Rat
Bull Monkey
Snake Dragon
Snake Rat
Snake Monkey
Rooster Dragon
Rooster Rat
Rooster Monkey

All of the 36 marriages listed above require you to reach the depths of feeling without calling everything by its proper name. Spouses should not destroy the aura of mystery and try to understand everything about each other. Skip all areas of everyday life, look for those areas of relationships where each of the couple reveals their talent. There is no need to strive to become a monolith in family life or to find unity in business. By preserving your individuality, you will also preserve your feelings. Life with mutual admiration, flowers, confessions, dates - everyone who lives in such marriages for a long time simply cannot do without all this!

Romantic passion lifts a person above himself, above everyday life, with the power of feeling and that extraordinary aura that surrounds his life partner. Spouses do not notice the prose of life and do not notice everyday difficulties, remaining together.

Romantic marriages

Nine marriages where:

Wife husband
Horse - Rat
Horse - Dragon
Horse - Monkey
Dog - Rat
Dog - Dragon
Dog - Monkey
Tiger - Rat
Tiger - Dragon
Tiger - Monkey

Love amazes the young, but spares neither mature nor even old people. A romantic marriage is truly democratic - there are no misalliances in it. Any difference in age, social and financial status is acceptable - as long as there is love. Such a marriage has all the characteristics of a magical union, and children are not a hindrance; in them the spouses see the continuation of their fairy tale together. The peculiarity of such a union is that one must take each other’s word for it, not appeal to reason, but simply live and rejoice in the unity of souls, the coincidence of the romanticized spheres of life.

A woman deeply romanticizes love, they always strive to be an ally, it is not typical for her to rule and command, or to exert volitional efforts. A man is also no stranger to romance: he romanticizes will as the concept of a certain position in a marriage. And provided that he makes the final decisions, the union will be completely harmonious, and if the husband thinks not only about love, but also about business, then the marriage will be quite happy and long-term.

A marriage where she is a Horse and he is a Rat is frankly dangerous; there is the possibility of a painful, long-term, but doomed union for both.

Marriages in which:

Wife husband
Rat - Horse
Rat - Dog
Rat - Tiger
Dragon - Horse
Dragon - Dog
Dragon - Tiger
Monkey - Horse
Monkey - Dog
Monkey - Tiger

They have other features. In them, a woman romanticizes will, and a man romanticizes love.

A man proves his strength of character in achieving his goals. A woman’s place is in the front row of the stalls; she will be delighted, but cannot provide real help to her chosen one. A woman is expected to have deep feelings, sexuality, and visual attractiveness. And from a man - the ability to provide financially such a level of prosperity that would not interfere with the idyll.
The most difficult option: he is a Horse, and she is a Rat.
More promising are marriages in which the husband is a Dog and the wife is a Monkey, the man is a Dragon and his wife is a Tiger; in such unions the psychological community is quite close to the surface.

Spouses should not destroy the aura of mystery and try to understand everything about each other. There is no need to strive to become one in family life or to come to complete agreement in business. By keeping your personality intact, you will also keep your feelings.

In the following nine marriages:

Wife husband
Snake - Cat,
Snake - Boar,
Snake - Goat
Bull - Cat
Bull - Boar
Bull - Goat,
Rooster - Cat,
Rooster - Boar,
Rooster - Goat

A woman romanticizes male beauty, and a man romanticizes completely earthly qualities: logic and combativeness. The life of such a couple is full of mutual admiration, but there is some detachment in the relationship. However, the partners do not skimp on signs of attention and, of course, remain attractive to each other.

The wife is the source of romantic feelings, truly blind love, and the husband is a handsome man, a breadwinner, an object of passion. A woman needs some restraint in the game - so as not to frighten a man with the strength of her feelings and not to suppress his initiative. The type of marriage Cat - Rooster and Goat - Snake are dangerous as vectors; in them, a woman’s passion can exceed all conceivable limits. And the Cat-Snake is a wonderful example of romantic and all-conquering love; This is exactly what the union of Mikhail and Elena Bulgakov was like.

In marriages

Wife husband
Cat - Rooster
Cat - Snake
Cat - Bull
Goat - Rooster
Goat - Snake
Goat - Ox
Boar - Rooster
Boar - Snake
Boar - Bull

The husband appreciates his wife for her ability to create peace and harmony, and she looks for business qualities, activity, and practicality in him. This is a difficult type of marriage; it is difficult for men with strong-willed women, but by pacifying excessive ambitions and parting with loser complexes, a man can be quite happy; in marriages of this type, the woman almost always behaves as a leader, remains independent and acts, practically without looking back at her husband. Ring vector marriages Rooster - Cat and Snake - Goat are dangerous.

Romantic marriages may be the only ones for which distances and separations are not scary. The memory of the heart will never leave a person.

But will a person be able to live up to the romantic image in the eyes of his companion, won’t there be great disappointment? All these marriages are worthy of novels, they are novels in their essence. All that remains is to combine romance and ordinary family life.

There are astrologers, in accordance with the existing tradition, dividing the signs of the Eastern horoscope into triplets both abroad and in Russia. Of our compatriots, the most famous is Grigory Kvasha, the founder of the theory of structural horoscope, whose works are republished almost every year and are still of interest to readers.

There are also foreign studies. Here are some materials translated from German.

Type of marriage - companions

Nine marriages within the troika Dog - Tiger - Horse are unions of associates. This kind of marriage is extremely popular among people with an active lifestyle. As a rule, in such unions the husband leads and the wife performs. The husband plans the main tasks of the family; the wife runs the household. The last German emperor and Prussian king (1888-1918), Wilhelm II of Hohenzollern, exhaustively defined the circle of the only worthy, in his opinion, occupations for a German woman - Kinder, Kuche, Kirche, Kleider (children, kitchen, church, clothes). In this type of marriage, it is very important that the wife recognizes the primacy of her husband, and he should not count on her love for too long.

Man Woman
Dog - Tiger
Dog - Horse
Dog - Dog
Horse - Tiger
Horse - Horse
Horse - Dog
Tiger - Tiger
Tiger - Horse
Tiger - Dog

The most difficult marriage in this nine is in which he is a Tiger, she is a Horse: the Tiger is very jealous, and the Horse is sociable.

Owners of a strong-willed type of thinking, Dog - Horse - Tiger men are creators and innovators. They are capable of decisive actions, are not afraid of responsibility, and from a young age are ready to feel like the head of the family.

Women of the Horse - Dog - Tiger troika are bright, able to make an impression, and have many fans; They have memorable manners, bright, original language. But they are alien to flexibility and compromise, are overly consistent and often do not know how to behave with subjugated men. Examples of such women are actresses with excellent vocal abilities or vocalists with acting talents: Ella Fitzgerald, Barbara Streisand, Patricia Kaas (Horses), Liza Minnelli and Madonna (Dogs), Sandra and Zhanna Aguzarova (Tigers).

To eliminate contradictions that arise between the status of a woman as such and the role of a woman leader, it is necessary to be prepared in advance to solve problems arising due to gender and social factors. And you have to come to terms with this: no matter what they say about gender equality, it is traditionally believed that a man should be the leader. And the women of the troika Ox - Snake - Rooster are predominantly of the strong-willed type, so it should not be surprising that many female rulers were representatives of this group. The man in this couple has a different role: while the woman leads, he creates and works.

Female Male
Rooster - Snake
Rooster - Bull
Rooster - Rooster
Snake - Snake
Snake - Bull
Snake - Rooster
Bull - Snake
Bull - Rooster
Bull - Bull

The union in which she is the Ox and he is the Snake is extremely complex; spouses have a long way to go to mutual understanding. A woman can be advised to restrain herself and not put unnecessary pressure on the will of her husband, otherwise the relationship will be destroyed.

There are probably other problems that we deliberately did not pay attention to. Every small family team has its own difficulties and pitfalls.

In the previous article, we briefly described the marriages of associates. This time we will talk about two more types of marriages .

Marriages of love

Nine marriages within the troika Rat - Monkey - Dragon are marriages of love.

Man Woman

Rat - Rat
Dragon - Rat
Monkey - Rat
Rat - Dragon
Dragon - Dragon
Monkey - Dragon
Rat - Monkey
Dragon - Monkey
Monkey - Monkey

Representatives of the troika Rat - Dragon - Monkey speak the language of love impeccably. The romantic passion of partners for each other lasts a long time, the passion does not fade, and everyday difficulties fade into the background. Such couples are in no hurry to think about children, intuitively feeling that a baby can disrupt the harmony of their union, and they do not attach much importance to household chores. Creative disorder or Spartan modesty may reign in their home, but the relationship will certainly be full of warmth and unusually deep. However, not everything goes smoothly in such couples; Thus, often one of the partners is in complete power of the other, on whom he is emotionally dependent. The most complex union in this regard is “Monkey - Rat” - in it the relationship develops according to the “servant-master” scheme, which can lead to self-destruction of passion.

Marriages of peace

Nine marriages within the troika Cat - Boar - Goat are marriages of peace. There is little love in them, but both partners feel confident in each other and enjoy the harmony of the relationship.

Man Woman

Cat - Cat
Boar - Cat
Goat - Cat
Cat - Boar
Boar - Boar
Goat - Boar
Cat - Goat
Boar - Goat
Goat - Goat

Any of the listed couples are beautiful and sexy; the woman’s bright individuality goes well with the man’s sophisticated realism, and such a family finds a way out of any situation that suits both. Representatives of such unions do not pay too much attention to the household, preferring the joys of love and aesthetic pleasures. True, guarantees of fidelity of spouses in such a union cannot be given. The least successful of these is the union in which the woman is a Pig and the man is a Goat.

Men born in the years of the Cat, Boar and Goat are the makers of affairs; they are capable of much and find the most reasonable way to realize their inclinations. Women give the impression of being calm, balanced and cold. At the same time, they have a powerful will, vivid imaginative thinking, insight and a penchant for mysticism. Such are Helena Roerich and Helena Blavatsky (both Cats), Annie Besant (Goat), Indri Devi (Boar).

Marriages of love and tranquility are united by the fact that the spouses in them, as a rule, do not need explanations and do without disputes, since they understand each other perfectly without words.

Sometimes it is quite difficult to explain the mystical attraction to your chosen one. At first glance, it can be confused with a feeling of lust or emotional attachment. What if it's something more unusual? Vector relationships between a man and a woman have remained a real mystery for many years, which astrologers are constantly trying to unravel.

Description

At the end of the twentieth century, astrologer Gregory Kvasha first proposed the theory of vector relationships. He described a whole system of relationships between men and women of different signs of the Zodiac and Eastern horoscope.

According to his hypothesis, there are 24 types of pairs subject to vector relationships. In such unions, men and women are divided into “master” - the dominant and “servant” - the subordinate. This role depends on which horoscope sign the partner was born under.

These relationships are quite complex and unpredictable. No one has yet been able to explain the nature of their occurrence - they flare up at one moment and suck both of them in like an abyss.

As a rule, the “servant” gives himself entirely to his “master”, sacrificing personal freedom, interests and desires. He is unconditionally ready to fulfill all the whims of the dominant, while feeling a significant loss of strength and vital energy.

The “master” of such a couple happily accepts the sacrifice of the beloved and takes advantage of it in every possible way, exerts a strong emotional impact on the “servant”, and suppresses his personality.

Grigory Kvasha talks in more detail about his theory in the video below.

Despite such complex and intricate relationships, breaking this union is very problematic. The fact is that there is a very strong energy connection between the “master” and the “servant”. Attempts by a follower to leave his guide often end in a quick and humiliating return.

Vector ring structure

According to the Eastern horoscope, 12 couples can be separated. Below are their brief characteristics - the first sign plays the role of “master”, and the second - “servant”.

1. Monkey-Rat
   The thirst to know all the intricacies of true love makes the Rat blindly follow its owner through life. The wise and purposeful Monkey, in turn, knows what and when to tell his partner so that he will be fascinated by her even more.
2. Snake-Monkey
   The guided Monkey is tired of the serenity and sluggishness of the Snake, but she fails to speed up the pace of life together. Such a marriage lacks understanding and support from both partners.
3. Goat-Snake
   An ambiguous couple in which the leader is eccentric and fickle, and the follower is calm and wise. This is exactly the case when feelings take precedence over reason.
4. Tiger-Goat
   The dominance of the powerful and freedom-loving Tiger over the Goat leads to the fact that the “servant” experiences a constant fear of separation. The “master,” in turn, takes advantage of this, often commits infidelities and does not hide them at all.
5. Bull-Tiger
   One of the most stable couples in vector relationships. The strength of both partners allows them to maintain balance. But in many cases, over time, understanding and stability develop into frequent conflicts and rivalries.
6. Bull Dog
   In this pair, the follower not only follows the “master”, but also learns life from him in every possible way. The Ox sometimes lacks the Dog’s tenacity and fanaticism, but he longs to take a leading position. If the Dog sometimes allows this, the marriage can be quite happy.
7. Rooster-Dog
   Considers one of the most common pairs. The leading Rooster is ready to give his soulmate the whole world and share his views on life with her. The dog sometimes lacks adventurism, but this does not burden it too much.
8. Cat-Rooster
   They have radically different views on life, which makes it difficult to come to a common opinion. The Cat is a philosopher by nature, and the Rooster is an eccentric: if this couple is happy, it will only be if the “owner” learns to give in.
9. Dragon-Cat
   The development of relationships depends solely on how much the “servant” Cat is ready to admire his “master”. The erudite Dragon loves all kinds of praise and does not accept other people's opinions.
10. Pig-Dragon
    The driven intellectual Dragon cannot fully reveal his potential in this union, so he can seek support on the side. The leading Pig is categorically disposed towards such actions and is not used to forgiving.
11. Horse-Boar
    Almost a perfect union. The judicious Horse easily guides the Pig on the right path, helping him to structure all areas of life. The follower in this pair blindly follows the dominant and completely trusts him.
12. Rat-Horse
    For the success of such a marriage, one of the partners will constantly sacrifice. Both have a strong character and a sharp mind, so it will be difficult even for a “servant” to give in first.

Zodiac vector

The second vector theory is called the “Small Ring”. It has its own “master” and “servant” for each sign of the Zodiac. The connection between such partners is no less strong than in the first case.

Such relationships usually have two extremes - a union can bring absolute happiness and satisfaction to both partners, or, on the contrary, it can make them sworn enemies.

The table below shows the ratio of all zodiac signs.

Zodiac sign	Servant	Master
Capricorn	Aquarius	Cancer
Aquarius	Taurus	Capricorn
Fish	a lion	Scales
Aries	Scales	Sagittarius
Taurus	Twins	Aquarius
Twins	Scorpion	Taurus
Cancer	Capricorn	a lion
a lion	Cancer	Fish
Virgo	Sagittarius	Scorpion
Scales	Fish	Aries
Scorpion	Virgo	Twins
Sagittarius	Aries	Virgo

It is worth paying special attention to couples who managed to fall under the double vector. For example, if your partner in the Eastern horoscope, the Rooster, was born under the sign of Pisces, he will become a double “master” for the Aquarius Dragon born in the year.

This marriage is special - both in it will experience the strongest affection for the chosen one. It is almost impossible to leave such a relationship, even if it is completely unbearable.

But pairs with a double vector ring are not always doomed to failure. There are often cases when, on the contrary, they turn out to be strong and filled with happy moments.

Partner interaction

Almost always, such a ring relationship between a man and a woman can be called “fatal love.” It comes out of nowhere - two people who are completely different at first glance cannot live without each other for a single minute.

“Vectors” feel each other perfectly - they are able to find their soulmate among a noisy crowd and immediately highlight them. Active interaction between partners immediately arises - they spend all their free time together, “groping” for each other’s strengths and weaknesses.

It is impossible to control the development of relationships in such a couple. It is dominated by an emotional component that defies any laws of logic.

In the classic scenario, the “master” suppresses the “servant” in all areas of life. He has a powerful influence on him, deprives him of the right to choose and controls his emotions. Even if it is necessary to break the stereotypes and principles of the subordinate, the dominant is ready to do everything to prove his power and superiority.

For the “servant” in such a couple, many difficulties can arise. Strong-willed and stubborn representatives of this category will struggle with themselves for a long time. Constantly trying to win the favor of your leader quickly tires and gets boring. It is on this basis that the first conflicts arise in a couple.

After this stage, as a rule, comes humility. Understanding by the “servant” that it will not be possible to dominate or at least be on equal terms with the “master”, acceptance of this can be the beginning of a strong and long-lasting relationship. And if at the same time the leader in a couple is lenient towards his other half and gives her a little freedom, then true love will certainly arise in such a union.

Character traits

You can determine whether you are in a vector relationship not only by your horoscope. Such couples have certain features that set them apart from the rest.

1. Gradual thinning of the energy field. Both partners are energy vampires for each other. Due to constant moral stress, their internal energy quickly runs out, which affects their well-being.
2. Excessive irritability on the part of the “owner”. Even minor offenses on the part of the “servant” can throw him off balance. He rarely praises his significant other, preferring constant criticism.
3. Difficulties in breaking up relationships. Getting out of the vector ring is equally difficult for master and servant. They may separate for a while, but then look for reasons for new meetings. As a rule, such a relationship lasts for years and rarely ends on an easy note.
4. The perception of a “servant” by the outside world as a ward of his “master”. Even the closest friends will consider the follower dependent on the leader - their connection is easy to notice from the outside. The “servant,” in turn, denies this fact in every possible way, trying to prove his independence.
5. Constant jealousy on the part of both partners. They are not ready to share their soulmate with someone else. The dominants in such unions are special owners - they do not forgive their partners for cheating or even light flirting on the side.

Advantages and disadvantages

Vector relationships between partners do not always bring disappointment. They are connected by a powerful energy that allows them to subtly feel the soul of their beloved. In addition, there are other positive aspects:

• the merging of souls allows lovers to open up to each other as much as possible;
• the predominance of emotions over reason ensures constant diversity in relationships;
• complete mutual understanding.

But at the same time, it is impossible to turn a blind eye to more significant shortcomings:

• the emergence of conflict situations even for minor reasons;
• strong vulnerability of both partners;
• the desire to hurt or simply hook a partner;
• inability to control the development of relationships.

How to behave in such an alliance?

Not everyone thinks about the essence of their relationship with their lover. The realization that you are in a vector ring can come absolutely spontaneously.

It is after accepting this fact that the reasons for numerous quarrels, reproaches, strange changes in mood and the attitude of the other half will become clear. If you find that the marriage turns out to be vectorial, you should adhere to 6 golden rules.

1. Show maximum calm and restraint towards your partner.
2. It is very important to sensibly assess how much a relationship affects your life and well-being.
3. Remember that in any dispute the “owner” will emerge victorious. This state of the situation will be obvious to everyone - to the leader and follower themselves, and to those around them.
4. Try to find a reason to see your significant other less often. Such a pause will have a beneficial effect on the relationship.
5. If by chance you find yourself in the role of a “servant”, do not try to achieve justice or equality - this will result in complete failure and another quarrel.
6. Having realized that you find yourself in the role of “master,” soften your attitude towards your chosen one.

How to break vector relationships?

Such relationships will never become calm and relaxed. A volcano of emotions and passions will always boil within them. Times of truce will alternate with the smashing of dishes against the walls or explosive scandals.

If you are not ready to live your whole life in such conditions, you should try to get out of a vector relationship while maintaining your marriage. For this purpose, a special technique was developed.

• try to bring harmony into the relationship;
• be more attentive to your chosen one;
• stop blaming others for your problems;
• accept your position in the union and follow it;
• respect your other half by being in the role of “master”;
• Do not put personal ambitions and desires first if you are in the role of a “servant”.

But if the relationship objectively sucks all the strength out of you, and you no longer have the strength to endure it, you should try to leave your vector partner once and for all. To do this, we recommend listening to the following tips:

• limit your time with your significant other to a minimum;
• even with the strongest desire to return to your past relationship, control yourself;
• The most effective way to protect yourself from a vector partner is to leave him.

You can learn how to leave an unwanted relationship in the video below.

Boar The Dragon Horse Boar Rat Horse

VECTOR COMMANDMENTS

I don’t want to call a vector union between a man and a woman a marriage. Marriage is something stable, natural, balanced, something that can be built, predicted, explained, in the end. But all of the above has nothing to do with the vector union. This, now a whirlwind, now a calm, now a fire-breathing volcano, now a rotting swamp, does not in any way fall under the concept of marriage. Rather, a vector union should be called not a marriage, but a riddle, Pandora's box, a breakthrough into the fourth dimension, or something else like that. Therefore, it is impossible to come up with any commandments for vector marriage. And the only real commandment could be the formula about the absence of any commandments. Therefore, all the commandments that will be set forth are very conditional and relative.

Well, for now, let’s announce, as they say, the entire list of characters. Rat - Monkey, Monkey - Snake, Snake - Goat, Goat - Tiger, Tiger - Bull, Bull - Dog, Dog - Rooster, Rooster - Cat, Cat - Dragon, Dragon - Boar, Boar - Horse, Horse - Rat. At the same time, for the first time, we have to stipulate in advance that in the listed couples the position of the spouses is not equivalent. In each pair listed, the servant is in first place, the master in second.

a) For some, vector marriage is obvious evidence of divine intervention in our lives, for others it is an equally obvious consequence of the devil’s machinations. Hence the main commandment, when entering into a vector marriage, do not expect to remain in the shadows. A vector union is a guarantee of, if not adventure, then at least anomalousness. Expect that aliens will visit you, a poltergeist will settle under your bed, drums, little devils, angels will appear everywhere, everything will mix up in the house and will spin under your feet. In a word, your life, already not simple and clear, will become completely beyond the control of reason. You can, out of fear, rush through churches, driving out an evil spirit, or, on the contrary, illuminating a strange union with the blessing of the church. Neither one nor the other changes anything; the church has no power over the vector ring.

b) You can get into a vector marriage out of great love, you can get into it completely by accident, you can pretend that the vector marriage didn’t mean anything to you, but you will never be able to prove that the vector marriage didn’t turn you inside out. This is a scalpel, God or hell, but it is the sharpest surgical instrument, it is not used for trifles. So don’t worry about worry, even if you manage to get out of the vector marriage alive and unharmed, the scar will remain for life. It is possible that vector marriage is some kind of vaccination, or maybe even initiation into a certain order of knights who have gone through vector purgatory. But in any case, vector marriage is the gate, the eye of the needle, through which a person becomes a Human.

c) In this sense, try to perceive the vector union as a test, as a dilemma. Moreover, not a single answer is obviously correct or incorrect. This is not a guessing game or a quiz. You say to the vector union - Yes! And go right, or say - No! And go left. And since then there is no turning back for you. A vector scalpel cuts out half of your soul and throws it away forever. And no one will say which half was better and more necessary. The choice is not between darkness and light, not between good and evil, which would be very comforting for us, but rather between order and chaos, between love and morality, that is, between things that everyone would like to preserve in their entirety. But you can’t, because you always have to choose. One chose love and forever lost the right to the path to truth. Another chose the truth, and since then, instead of a soul, he has a black hole, unable to love himself, unable to sympathize with the love of others.

d) The number of vector scenarios is unlimited. One of the main entertainments of humanity is a collection of vector essays. And yet, first you should understand the main thing about your vector marriage: are you growing together, or, on the contrary, are you rejecting each other. We are talking not so much about mental interactions as about purely physiological reactions. Any drug analogies are possible: smoking, drinking alcohol, etc. If you feel sick from cigarettes, then no matter how strong your addiction to nicotine is, you need to pull yourself together and quit smoking. If you realize that vodka is killing you, gather your strength and kill vodka first. If smoking and drinking leave you with the opportunity to live a comfortable life, then live to your health. Not every vector marriage needs to be destroyed.

d) But if you still managed to get out of a vector marriage, then rejoice immensely. You have reached a new level, God kissed you. Now you simply have to make a fantastic career, especially if you were a servant in a broken vector marriage. Theory always congratulates people who have left a vector marriage. If the collapse of any other marriage is always a recognition of weakness and helplessness, then the collapse of a vector marriage is always a recognition of a person’s strength, the power of his spirit. Don’t rush to destroy a vector marriage, but once you decide, know that a reward awaits you. However, also remember that great rewards are not paid for trifles. Destruction of a vector union is the hardest, most unique work. Breaking up a vector marriage is just as difficult as maintaining a balanced marriage.

f) Vector interaction is directly proportional to the time of communication and the density of contact, and therefore always try to manage your condition through time management. Learn to manage time, learn to control vector. Learn to control the vector and become the manager of life. If your vector union follows the principle of “24 hours together” and you are still alive, then spit on everything and don’t read any commandments, everything is fine with you, you have long grown together, you have one body, one soul and two brains in synchronous mode, you don’t need anyone and no one is interesting.

It’s a completely different matter if every minute spent together changes your mood, if you look like a kettle forgotten on a burning stove, heat up, boil and, finally, burn. Everything is more complicated here - vector allergies are treated with harsh methods.

g) To scare people with vector marriage - or not to scare, that is the question. On the one hand, you won’t be intimidated, but you will end up withholding strategic information. Still, a vector marriage is cooler than the Bermuda Triangle - the immune system breaks down, the roof goes crazy, and so on. On the other hand, if you intimidate a person, and the vector marriage turns out to be happy, calm and peaceful, who will you find yourself after that? Therefore, the main commandment, which follows from the unpredictability of a vector marriage, is not to try to predict how it will all end and what scenario it will follow. Nothing is known in advance.

h) Do not look for a golden mean in a vector marriage. He's either too good or too bad. Everything average, ordinary, universal for a vector marriage is impossible. Either delight or despair. Hence the main tactical commandment of the vector alliance - go to the end in the chosen direction. Either together until the end, or apart until the end. But running back and forth in a vector marriage is not advisable. Nothing will settle down, will not be tolerated and will not fall in love, will not settle down and will not settle down. If you decide to leave, go away. I decided to stay - stay. This commandment is especially important precisely because in a vector union the will is weakened many times over and may completely disappear. Any exaggerated assessment is only beneficial, because it helps to make a clear decision whether to stay or leave.

i) For those who like to look for a higher meaning in everything, it is very important to understand why a vector marriage exists at all, and why it happened to a specific person. According to the latest ideas, vector interaction is omnipresent and inevitable, whether the vector is large or small, karmic years or karmic months. And everywhere vector influences help a person to interrupt the ordinary course of life and reach a new level. Yes, through stress, through humiliation, sometimes catastrophe... But there is apparently no other way to deprive a person of his sheepish self-confidence, stubbornness and stupidity. Thus, vector tests are sent to someone from whom a sharp change in circumstances is expected, who has already outgrown his old pants, but does not dare to change them. This is where the vector union appears, that very nightmare that explodes the old established life and at the same time serves as a control test for passage to a new level.

j) Thus, vector marriage also has its own achievements, its own register of exploits. The vector marriage ruined some, but exalted others, taking them to a completely transcendental level, placed others in the ring of time, forcing them to move in a circle, and pulled others out of the ring and placed them on the axis of ultra-fast progress. So be proud. Whatever happens to you in a vector marriage, be proud. The universe itself has challenged you. If you lost, it means you were the main figure interfering with higher powers, and therefore do not be afraid to ask for good compensation for your defeat. If you win, then don’t complain about troubles, bad luck, lack of money, unpopularity and other details. Be proud of the victory itself.

k) If a spiritual marriage allows spouses to spit on public opinion, then a vector marriage allows everything in the world. In a destructive scenario, everything is allowed, because there are no forces. In the creative scenario, everything is allowed because the fused vector spouses are no longer people, they are some kind of new being, with a new physiology, a new psychology, a new morality, or rather with an absent morality, because the very concept of morality is purely human. All the meanness of an equal marriage, all the arrogance and arrogance of a spiritual marriage are trifles compared to what a successful vector union allows itself. Truly there is no limit. A person who has surrendered to the mercy of the vector can afford everything.

m) Describing the details of so-called equilibrium marriages, we were forced to recognize the symmetry in the position of the spouses. Emphasizing the inequality of the sexes in romantic and patriarchal marriages does not deprive them of balance. Each remains a dominant figure in his element. A vector union is a completely different matter. There is a master, there is a servant. The position of the spouses is initially different. The master can and must become a master, the servant must and can become a blind executor of the master's will. Alas, in real life everything is not so simple, and often it is the offended servant who strives for power, and the relaxed master who does not want to command. Still, let everyone play their role. If you have a chance to command, pull yourself together and command, if you have a chance to serve, serve and don’t rock the boat. There are even certain benefits to being a servant. The servant is a suffering figure, morally purified. The owner is an impudent, boorish, ungrateful and indifferent monster.

n) Spiritual marriage moves a person away from his native sign, but does it slowly and for a long time. In addition, in a spiritual marriage, the sign shift occurs in a very precisely defined direction, according to the normal logic of the elements. The vector union literally hacks all defense systems, rips open all protective shells and throws two completely different people into the most powerful embrace. As a result of this nightmare surgery, the shift of signs occurs quickly, chaotically, roughly. Finally, the shift is going in a direction that cannot be explained by ordinary logic. Moreover, if only one structure was crushed in the spiritual shift, then everything is here at once. The loss of a sign means the loss of all the most precise settings. Continuing the computer analogy, we can say that all programs freeze, a person begins to glitch, sometimes very strongly.

o) A vector defect is a situation in which rotation always goes in one direction; there is practically no concept of reverse motion here, just as there is no concept of trial and error. Everything is always here once and for all. Therefore, counseling such a marriage is almost impossible. There is almost no clear and obviously useful advice. Today, a consultation is an attempt to open their eyes, to help spouses see themselves from the outside, and also to help the spouses themselves find the main decision - to continue the vector experiment, or to stop. If the decision is made (by at least one of the spouses), then the consultant helps in full force, because the technique of leaving a marriage is known, the technique of preserving a vector marriage is also clear.

p) So: you decided to leave the vector union. Learn to manage time. Reduce communication time. If there is a physiological addiction, then try to replace it with another addiction, it doesn’t have to be about another person, it can be anything - alcohol, sports, travel, a car, and so on... Finally, you feel that your spirit has become stronger, in the trembling in your knees is not so bad... Run, run as hard as you can, and if you have no strength, then crawl, crawl until you lose consciousness. And when you crawl away, then freeze and hide, not responding to cries for help, or messages of death, or screams, or crying. Plug your ears, close your eyes and take as long as you can. But even when you have already won and confidently broken the vector alliance, continue to be careful and do not lose your vigilance. All this applies to a particularly large extent to departing servants.

p) If you decide to stay, then realize that this is forever. Imbue yourself with fatalism, outline the range of issues that you refuse to discuss and refuse to think about. From now on you are deprived of freedom of choice, you are a lifelong slave to the decision you made. Don't complain, don't grumble, don't seek consolation. Relax your muscles, ignore everything, live as you live. You will be fine, everything will be fine.

And now a list of horoscopes of people who feel even better in a vector marriage than in other marriages, because a vector marriage was intended for them.

Rooster - Aquarius, Rooster - Cancer, Dog - Capricorn, Dog - Taurus, Pig - Leo, Pig - Libra, Rat - Libra, Rat - Sagittarius, Ox - Aquarius, Ox - Gemini, Tiger-Taurus, Tiger-Scorpio, Cat - Capricorn, Cat - Leo, Dragon - Pisces, Dragon - Cancer, Snake - Scorpio, Snake - Sagittarius, Horse - Pisces, Horse - Aries, Goat - Gemini, Goat - Virgo, Monkey - Aries, Monkey - Virgo.